TakingUpSpace (original poster new member #86046) posted at 8:33 PM on Thursday, February 19th, 2026
Just wondering if anyone here has experience of Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy approach in the context of trying to reconcile after infidelity? There are therapists trained in his approach as well as resources on his website and many podcasts etc..
We've had two MC's since my husband's long term Emotional affair came to light, neither very helpful. I'm not sure I have energy or hope left for a 3rd try, so just wondering if this is worth a go. Terry Real's approach seems to offer the potential of a more direct and challenging encounter than the classic listening / let's focus on the present / looking to blame the marriage before the affair.
Be grateful to hear from anyone who has experience with this approach. Thanks so much.
BS
DDay 2022.
EA of 3+ years by husband of 15+ years.